Por que a linha da sua silhueta não deve ser uma insegurança

Inseguranças podem aparecer nos menores detalhes. Para algumas mulheres, uma pequena depressão entre a perna e o quadril pode afetar bastante a autoestima.

A blogueira Carys Gray chamou atenção para esse problema em um post no Instagram. Ela compartilhou uma foto mostrando a linha curva entre os quadris e o começo das coxas, e disse que sempre achou essa característica única, e não negativa. “Não vou adicionar outra coisa para a minha lista de inseguranças”, ela disse.

Foi a legenda de uma foto de Sam James, outra influenciadora fitness da rede social, que fez com que ela descobrisse que muitas mulheres desejam até mesmo fazer intervenções estéticas para ter uma silhueta sem esse recuo. “Como qualquer insegurança, você nunca sabe que tem [aquela característica] até que alguém a aponta ou que você descobre que um traço seu é algo que a sociedade considera que deve ser uma insegurança”, disse Sam:

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just out here tryna quietly grow my ? apple emoji and not peach bc hip dips. which i didn’t even know were a thing until someone told me i had them a few months ago. and i was like oh ok shi u right. and then people started talking about them on SM and i was like heck yeah its just our anatomy and the way our damn bones are constructed, not a lack of hard work in the gym! maybe i’ll never have that perfect hourglass unless i get fat injected or some crazy tomfoolery which i’ll let ya know about if i did ever decide to, but i’m okay with them right now. also i’m broke/all my money goes to @thiccbruce. so i gotta accept and love em ??‍♀️ . kinda like every insecurity, u never know you have them until someone tells you that you do or you learn that a trait you have is something society deems worth being insecure about. kinda like in high school when a girl made me realize in front of an entire class that i had a speech impediment that i apparently had been living the last 15 years with. learning about the hip dips were cool but that girl who told me about my speech is on my shit list. <3 …………………………….. “vlog”/dumbbell only glute workout is about to be on my youtube channel in T-10 minutes after i create a fire thumbnail. ah, the artistic process. ……………………………. new gymshark releases/restocks (I’ll put my link in my bio before the launch, use the link to shop if you wish! my link is also always in my Youtube descriptions! ?) ✖️19th April 2017✖️ New Releases: Fit Tracksuit in black, charcoal, and purple (I wear a small in the hoodie and sweatpants! go true to size) Apollo T-shirt in grey, turquoise, purple, and cranberry and RESTOCK in the black & navy (I like to wear these knotted up so I wear either a small or medium!) LAUNCH TIME: 3 PM UK time, 10 AM EST, 7 AM Pacific.

A post shared by Sam James (@sjamesfit) on Apr 18, 2017 at 7:47pm PDT

Carys concorda que os padrões estéticos são responsáveis pela baixa autoestima. Ela apontou que se tivesse descoberto há alguns anos que esse aspecto poderia ser uma insegurança para alguém, também teria passado a sentir-se insegura. “Agora eu não ligo para o que outras pessoas acham que é bonito ou não”, garante.  “Se alguma de vocês tiver essa depressão fofa nos quadris, então arrasem com ela”. Veja abaixo:

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‼️ HOLD UP let's talk about hip dips for a minute ?? As you can see from this picture and many of my other pictures I have preeeeeetty large 'hip dips'.. This is where my leg/hip area comes in just before my quad starts.. I thought these lil dips were unique to me until I read the gorgeous @sjamesfit this morning all about how they're actually a huge insecurity to loads of women!! I then went on to google hip dips and read all about how they're seen as a bad thing for women and some people even go as far as to have fat injected into them to smooth them out ???? WELL I sure as hell wasn't about to add another thing onto my insecurity list ?✋?✋?✋? If anyone else has these cute ass hip dips then you should rock them.. For 20 years I've picked at areas of my body I hate but not once did I pick up on these! A few years ago I would have read that article and suddenly felt insecure and wanted to change them. Now I don't give a poo what other people think looks good on women or not. I think they're cool. ? ? And yes growing my quads 17483 times bigger has probably made the hip dips even more prominent but quads are cool too. Conclusion: I'm cool. You're cool. Everyone's cool. Bye. Don't forget to watch my latest YouTube video where I unbox my supplement delivery from @womensbest ?? LINK IN MY BIO ????? #fitness #fit #health #healthy #gym #workout #Abs #glutes #fitfam #girlswholift #cardio #fitspo #instafit #gains #girlgains #muscle #strength #motivation #muslce #booty #leanin15 #gymshark #gymsharkwomen #womensbest

A post shared by Carys Gray ?? (@busybee.carys) on Apr 19, 2017 at 11:45am PDT

• Essa não foi a primeira vez que Carys usou o Instagram para passar mensagens positivas a seus seguidores. Ela também já falou sobre sua luta em amar sua aparência sem maquiagem. Confira aqui.